Every guy has had a few of those conversations about the perfect girl—”her face on her body” sort of thing. But have we ever asked ourselves what we are going to do when the perfect woman presents herself. What about what the chicks want? We sat down with the Dozen’s own Caitlin Chesky to ask what she thinks..
When is the right time to strike up conversation?
If you want to get to know someone be sure that when you meet, you’re putting yourself in a situation where you will be remembered. Make sure you are in an area free of distractions.
“Ideally, the first time a guy approaches you, it should be natural and not forced. I always appreciate having a conversation with someone in a place where it is easy to hear them. Crowded parties, bars, boats, etc. are not the best places to try to have a conversation with me.”
Lay it out for us quick and simple what are the does and dont’s?
- DO: be polite, be funny
- DON’T: act bitter if you are drunk and sloppy and I am uninterested; you’re digging yourself a deeper hole.
Sounds like if you do a “Don’t”, she’s spreading the word about your douchey act to all of her friends—probably the Dozen as well.
So what if I meet someone on a party boat or, or crowded bar?
“Taking me to dinner would be the best thing to do. If I’m interested at all, I would have no problem saying yes to ‘wanna grab dinner sometime?’ We could continue our conversation then ; )”
It sounds like Caitlin just wants a guy who knows how to keep it classy.
If beautiful women are your missions, then guys’, staying fit is your homework.
“Physically, I love tall guys since I am 5’9”. But, if a guy has a great personality, height doesn’t really matter.”
What do you prefer, a big jacked guy or more of a ripped/lean and fit?
“I would take a 6-pack/ lean muscle over a huge roided-out guy any day.”
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